I read a text from one of my besties on Whatsapp. She told me she is in pain. In a very long text, she expressed her feelings with words.
She said that, there is a guy who is playing with her feelings. In four years, after a million and trillion of hopes given, he finally told her that he likes someone else, so he asked her to stop talking with him by just using a word, sorry.
What could I say? Who should be the one to be blamed? Either she is the one who is wrong for giving the opportunity to that guy for taking her heart at the first place Or the guy is the one who is wrong for giving a ton of hopes to her with no intention to love her?
My answer is both.
But to heal the wounds and pain, it is an option for you to decide.
Whether you want to stay in pain by keep on thinking who is right and who is wrong Or you can just move on and learn from it?
I couldn't say that it is easy to move on. Because yes, the pain itself is too real for us to let go. Moreover, our mind is very good in tend to remember the past, both happy and grieve moments, and making negative thoughts. As what I can say here, surely the sweet voices come from the demons around us, yes it is.
So the best solution is, we should turn back to Allah s.w.t.. Maybe you don't realise that, to be in pain can be such a beautiful thing if we look at a different perspective. Do you know that when we are in pain, Allah is actually is focusing on us?
To live our life, sometimes we are going off from the right tracks without realising we did. To be back again in the right tracks, there must be a little bit changes. But believe me, it is for your own good, because we have to remember, Allah's plan is way much greater than ours. And don't worry, you are not alone, because everyone is going through the pain or a test based on their ability and because Allah is with you, with us.
Instead of thinking why must I be the one to be in pain?, there is no other guys or girls better than the past, it is so unfair because he or she is just fine while you are now struggling to fight with the scars alone and being lonely, and all sorts of negative thinking, why can't you just give it all to Allah?
Why?
Because when you rely on Allah, everything is going to be alright.
Because what you give, you get back. What they give, they get back.
Because you are going to meet someone much better in the future till you realise "that is why you didn't end up with her/him"
and yes,
Because pain is temporary.
Have faith in Allah :)
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